You always wondered what friendship was like when we were kids; you still remember your childhood friends as your best friends. Then when you get older and passing through different phases of your life, you realized that friendship is never the same. The reason is that when you were a kid, at that time, you and your friends were innocent, pure, and with no evil thoughts, with the time you learned how to see bad things, so it is never the same. As for our kids, in these times, things are different, kids can see evil and do evil from early years, why, because they have access to bad inputs and on larger scales and levels.
Nobody, I mean nobody, can understand you better than you.
It is known that life acts as a circle, it will keep rolling where things got rotated, once you are in a position where people want to be close to you, but once the rotation continues and you moved from where you are, these people will not even talk to you. Guess what, it is a circle and circumstances will change, keep remembering this.
Time will prove this.
I just cannot describe how I feel now…The only thing that I can say is that circumstances divert out social beliefs. I did blog about friendship a while ago, I do not even recall what was the circumstances, but today, I have a definition for friendship.
A friend is someone who listens, understands, care and act…with one condition …there is nothing for him or her . Well, there are people like that ..and for this I am grateful and I am ready to do the same when I can …so yes I will build friends.
For all people who are 40 years + , let us try to go over your lives very quickly..First, you will immediately categorized it into phases childhood, school, university and then 2 or three more phases; and second, in each phase you will have 3 to 5 things that you remember the most , and it is like it is engraved in your mind ..Why is that ? Why there are somethings that we cannot forget and maybe those things did affect our whole lives..weird when you summarize your entire 40 years into 3 to 5 phases with some memories. Where our lives go? That is why it is very important to cherish every lovely memory and try really to learn something out of it..life is too short!!
If you want to think about it, ones life is a set of deadlines that need to be met. It starts from your school life in the forms of exams, tests, projects, in the college same story. After your graduation you need to get a job , then in the job , deadlines have different flavours, even when getting married, having kids …. It is really a bunch of connected circles .
What is your next deadline?
I use to think that there exist in this world people who are really considered to be unique; well maybe this is the case , but it is not that they won’t change! I was really chocked by a person who did proof that life really turned him to the dark side….The lesson that we can take out is that temptations in life can be a real demon, if you surrender to it, you are doomed, if you are strong enough, you really are a true , honest, strong person that can keep the balance….